Love bombing: Affection today. Abuse tomorrow. - Solace Womens Aid
This is a classic manipulation tactic known in psychology as . By reframing controlling aggression as emotional intensity, the abuser makes the victim feel responsible for the abuser’s feelings. The victim—Mía or Roberta—is left apologizing for making him angry, rather than addressing his violence.
As a community, it's essential to acknowledge these concerns and strive for healthier, more positive representations of relationships in fanfiction: